When Like Attracts Like: being your own e-harmony

Would you want to date yourself?  Are ‘you’ the One?  Or are you still out there looking for someone else to make your life whole?  These questions are important because your mindset determines what you will attract.     Like attracts like; wounded attracts wounded; whole attracts whole.

Relationships can light up our lives like the blinding rays of the sun.  And relationships can also be the bane of our existence.   It is a choice we make.  We all want to feel connected and accepted for who we are.  We can feel that connection with another when we have it first with ourselves.  We have to do our soul work in learning to love ourselves.  The problem is that we keep looking outside ourselves for that connection first.  We want a ‘perfect’ match, resonating chemistry, energetic harmony with another.  We powder, work out, diet, comb our hair and practice our smiles so that when a likely victim approaches we are ready to cast the bait. More

A Man Who Needs Help

If you are looking for a charity to support…….remembering that the Law of Attraction works best when our money energy is circulating………consider this one.   Nicolas Kristof wrote in his Sunday opinion article for the NYT, a woman in Pakistan dies in pregnancy or childbirth every 35 minutes.   Kristof describes how a doctor is trying to help poor women in childbirth in his native Pakistan.   His uplifting Sunday article can be found at http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/19/opinion/19kristof.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=Dr.%20Shershah&st=cse.  If you read the article, you will be reminded again that amidst those who continue to act out of the old patriarchal energy of egocentrism, there are beautiful lights of humanity stretching out their hearts to help one another.   A summary is found on Kristof’s blog entry below. More

Give Yourself a Loving Gift

When was the last time you gave yourself something special……not a material something but a heart thing.  Most of our days are spent running from one happening to another.  Our challenge is to slow down and to become mindful……bringing our full awareness to the task at hand.  We allow our breathing to slow down as thoughts move past our mind creating a space of just ‘Being’ with whatever is in front of us.

Sometimes, however, it is a challenge to get into that ‘Being’ space.  When we are feeling disconnected, separated, and generally not at peace, it is challenging to hear the knowing of our intuition as our guide.  We can become anxious and frustrated and create confusion in our lives.  It is at those times that we need to hear from a special friend who really loves us.  One who really understands who we are; one who is able to embrace us fully with compassion. More

A Hit of Heaven: a soul’s journey through illusion

The Reflections Points at the end of each chapter in my book are expanded for discussion on www.ahitofheaven.wordpress.com. Check it out and see what you think………new book on soulful relationships coming soon!!

No Room for Fear

There is no room for fear to breathe in the energy of love.  But until we realize this stage, each breath of fear we experience can be embraced with love, nurtured into love by love.  Know that every experience is designed by its own vibration to raise ours.  There are no mistakes in energy attraction, all serves a purpose.

Take, for example, a fear of being loveable.  We will draw to us every circumstance that we uniquely would need to transform that fear into love.  People and events come into our lives to reflect that belief of being unloveable.  We can choose to accept the reinforcement of that belief or we can see past the surface events and realize that we are being called to love ourselves more deeply.  When we have learned the lesson, people who are unable to love us will pass us by with no internal emotional charge.  We will observe the process and move on our way. More

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